What if your community was built to hold you?
We train, support, and advocate for people navigating harm, healing, and alternative relationships—with professionalism, care, and lived experience.
Too many of us have been doing this alone.
Communities fracture. People burn out.
Support gets improvised or ignored.
It doesn’t have to be that way.
Why TLC Exists
Where Healing Gets Infrastructure
For too long, harm has been handled with gossip, exile, or silence in alternative communities. TLC Community Builders was created to change that. We provide trauma-informed education, structured harm case support, and spaces designed for connection—not chaos.
Our work gives facilitators, group leaders, and individuals real tools to navigate conflict, growth, and desires with care.
This is what it looks like when healing gets infrastructure.
Passionate And Experienced
What does TLC offer to communities?
Meet with our compassionate teams
Learn with Us
Join a class, weekend intensive, or digital workshop. Expand your skills with our rotating calendar.
Find Support
Access harm resolution, counseling, coaching, and case management. One-on-one and group supports.
Explore Resources
Download guides, prep forms, and DIY tools for healing, negotiation, and healthy dynamics.
Build the Future
Support our work by donating, volunteering, or becoming a partner in reshaping alt communities.
Ready to build with us?
Your support makes healing real.
Every resource we create, every case we manage, every class we teach—it’s all possible because people like you show up.
Whether you’re funding the next community center or downloading tools to change lives, you’re part of the movement we’re building. Let’s make alt spaces stronger, together.